Aww, how cute!
Got a lot of nice emails about yesterday's post on monogamy. Thought I would say "thanks" by posting a few for everyone to read.
"Your last blog was very interesting-- contemplating the nature of a monogamous relationship. As someone who once had a very serious one and now find himself without anything close, I must say, your sentiments are not alone. I too think that monogamy is THE way to go for those that want it... and they shouldn't be outcast because of the conventional nature of their unconventional lifestlye."
"I am a friend of Bradford's- that is how I found your link, I have read your comments today, and wanted to share with you that me and my partner are going into our 5th year, and yes we are totally monogamous and happy. Do not let people like geekslut discourage you."
"I think you're onto something good here when you write about the "so-called 'hetero' lifestyle" you hope to live. If it's "hetero" to want to be with one person, to make a commitment, then so be it. I actually think, given the heteros I know, it's on an even higher level than that.... For me, it's about not being selfish, about giving up something that's ultimately trivial for the pursuit of a safe and trusting space in the relationship. It's about living from the heart instead of the dick."
" I do agree with you that times have changed. I am so happy to see guys that are your age who can have a relationship on your own terms, be in love and be OK with it. I also appreciate the gutsy manner in which speak out about subjects that most people would not approach, starting the debate rather than just responding to the masses."
"My BF and I have been together for 4 years and we?re getting married on the 16th in Stowe, VT. We met in college..." (Aww!)
"Just an FYI that I hope makes your day -- I just turned 41 and I've lived with my husband going on 14 years (whew!). We said we'd be monogamous, and that's what we've been. Wouldn't have it any other way -- and I find him more desirable and sexy every day. Part of that is because I love him more every day! Keep it just between the two of you, and it only gets better!"
OK, enough of the sentimental shit. I'll be back to bitching later today, mah peeps.